Your First AI Chat: How to Start Today (Step by Step)

By the end of this post – and this video – you will have had your first AI chat, not theoretically, actually.

I’m going to walk you through it step by step on my screen, and I want you to do it alongside me. If you’ve never opened one of these tools before, today is the day. And I promise you, it’s going to be easier than you think.

First, One Word to Know: Prompt

Before we do anything, let’s clear up the one piece of vocabulary that gets thrown around a lot.
 
A prompt is just the thing you type. Your question, your request. That’s it. It’s a fancy word for the thing you type in the box.
 
That’s the only jargon you need to know for today. Ready? Let’s go.

Step 1: Open Your Browser and Go to Claude.ai

I’m using Claude for this walkthrough because it’s the tool I use most. But if you took the AI Tool Navigator quiz and got matched to ChatGPT, Perplexity, or Gemini, everything here works basically the same way. A text box, you type, it responds.
 
Open Chrome, Safari, Firefox, or whatever browser you use. Type this in the address bar: claude.ai
 
That’s C-L-A-U-D-E dot A-I.
 
If you don’t have an account yet, you’ll see a sign-up button. Click it. You can sign up with your email address or your Google account. Either one works. It’s free.
 
If you already have an account, just sign in.

Step 2: Find the Box and Type This

See the box at the bottom of the screen? That’s the whole interface. That’s where you type.
 
Pretty simple. Pretty easy peasy.
 
Here’s what I want you to type right now. Copy this exactly, or make it your own:
 
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“Hi, I’m 62 years old and I’ve never used AI before. I’m curious, but a little nervous. Can you introduce yourself and tell me what you can help me with? Keep it simple and warm.”
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Type that, then hit Enter.
 
Look at what comes back. It’s talking to you in full sentences, in a warm, friendly way. It’s not a list of links. It’s not a search result. It’s a response to you, based on exactly what you told it.
 
And notice something: you said you were nervous, and it responded to that. It didn’t ignore it. It acknowledged it. That’s one of the things that surprises most people about AI. It actually pays attention to what you say.
 
If you just did that – you just had your first AI conversation. That’s the moment. It happened.
 
If you haven’t tried it yet, pause here and go do it. I’ll wait.

Step 3: Keep the Conversation Going

Here’s the thing most people don’t realize: this isn’t a one-question thing. You can keep going. You can have a whole conversation.
 
Try this one next, right in the same window without starting over:
 
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“I love cooking, but I’m getting bored with my usual recipes. I have chicken, rice, and some vegetables in the fridge. Can you suggest something I haven’t tried before? Nothing too complicated.”
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Watch what happens. It doesn’t just give you one recipe. It gives you options. It considers that you said “nothing too complicated.” It remembers you mentioned you were bored with your usual stuff. It’s building on the conversation.
 
And you can keep going from there. Try typing: “That second one sounds good, but I don’t like mushrooms. Can you adjust it?”
 
It adjusts. Just like a real person would. You’re not starting over. You’re having a conversation.
 
The more you tell it, the better it gets. This is what makes AI different from Google. You talk to it, it listens, you refine, it adapts. Back and forth, like two people sitting at a kitchen table figuring something out together.

3 Tips That Make Your First AI Chat So Much Better

Before you go off and explore on your own (and you should), here are three things that will change the quality of your results right from the start.
 
Tip 1: Tell it about yourself.
 
The more context you give, the better the answer. Don’t just say “give me a recipe.” Say “I’m 65, I live alone, I’m watching my sodium, and I have 30 minutes to cook.” See the difference?
 
I call this context engineering. It’s the single biggest thing that separates a mediocre AI result from a genuinely useful one. We’ll go deep on this in a future video, but start practicing it now.
 
Tip 2: Talk to it like a person.
 
You don’t need special commands or code words. Just talk. “Hey, can you help me with something?” works perfectly. Be specific, be conversational, and be yourself.
 
Tip 3: Push back when you need to.
 
If AI gives you something you don’t like, say so. “That’s not quite what I meant, can you try again?” or “Make it shorter” or “That sounds too formal, can you make it sound more like me?”
 
AI is not fragile. You won’t hurt its feelings. And it gets better every time you redirect it.
 
Give context. Talk like a person. Push back when you need to. That’s it.

What’s Next

You just had your first AI conversation. Or your second. Or maybe your tenth by now because you got excited and kept going — and that’s exactly what’s supposed to happen.
 
In the next video, I’m going to show you all four of the major AI tools and help you understand which one is best for what. They’re not all the same. Each one has strengths, and knowing which one to reach for is going to save you a lot of time.
 
→ Watch it here
 
And if you haven’t taken the AI Tool Navigator quiz yet, now is a perfect time. Two minutes, and it matches you to the right starting tool.
 
→ Take the quiz
 
Alright, my friends. Take care. Bye bye.

About Kris Voelker: Kris is the founder of Second Act with AI and the creator of the RECIPE Framework for AI prompt writing. She teaches AI tools and digital literacy to people over 60 at secondactwithai.com.